Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Quick, cross your fingers, it’s the mail van!

Childhood. I wish I could go back to those days, or at least see them as a movie on a projector screen. I want to remember small things I did back then.

My mom still remembers her childhood. She had 7 siblings and they stayed in a joint family of another 4 siblings with their parents. Some days were good, some were bad. In a good phase they got to cook what they want, got clothes stitched during Diwali, got chappals to wear, etc. The other days they were not so lucky. Yet, whenever she recollects her childhood, there is a spark in her eyes, saying, “Amcha lahanpana sarkha anandi lahanpan konacha nasel. Asa vatata ki parat lahan vhava, Akka swayampak karat disavi ani amhi khelat rahavot!” (“No one might have had a happy childhood like ours. I feel like becoming a kid again, to see my mother cooking in the kitchen, and to play with my sisters.”). She called her mom ‘Akka’.

 She once told me that whenever they saw a mail van (Red van by Indian Postal Office) or a Fire engine, they crossed their fingers. It meant that they would get “Khau (Sweets)” when they got back home in the evening. Actually even I and my friends believed this during our school days. We crossed our fingers when we saw the red van, however we rarely thought of looking for sweets when we got back home. It was different back then for my mom, as her parents barely made ends meet. Some days she did get a surprise and felt good for remembering to cross her fingers.

Come to think of it, what does that van have to do with sweets? It brought letters from relatives and loved ones far off – carrying good news and updates. People might be distributing sweets on hearing from them. And so the custom.

Nowadays we don’t crave for sweets so much, as we keep buying them whenever we want to. Also, these Red Post Office vans have become so rare, with the surge of internet, emails, phones, etc. that we have forgotten that they ever existed!

But then today, while coming to the office, I happened to see this red van going merrily on its way. I crossed my fingers on a sudden reflex, without thinking what I was doing. After a few minutes I told Yogesh that we are going to get sweets today evening, because we saw the van! He might have assumed that it was yet another whimsical thought of mine, and kept driving ahead.


So, will I get sweets today?

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